Calendar An icon of a desk calendar. Cancel An icon of a circle with a diagonal line across. Caret An icon of a block arrow pointing to the right. Email An icon of a paper envelope. Facebook An icon of the Facebook "f" mark. Google An icon of the Google "G" mark. Linked In An icon of the Linked In "in" mark. Logout An icon representing logout. Profile An icon that resembles human head and shoulders. Telephone An icon of a traditional telephone receiver. Tick An icon of a tick mark. Is Public An icon of a human eye and eyelashes. Is Not Public An icon of a human eye and eyelashes with a diagonal line through it. Pause Icon A two-lined pause icon for stopping interactions. Quote Mark A opening quote mark. Quote Mark A closing quote mark. Arrow An icon of an arrow. Folder An icon of a paper folder. Breaking An icon of an exclamation mark on a circular background. Camera An icon of a digital camera. Caret An icon of a caret arrow. Clock An icon of a clock face. Close An icon of the an X shape. Close Icon An icon used to represent where to interact to collapse or dismiss a component Comment An icon of a speech bubble. Comments An icon of a speech bubble, denoting user comments. Comments An icon of a speech bubble, denoting user comments. Ellipsis An icon of 3 horizontal dots. Envelope An icon of a paper envelope. Facebook An icon of a facebook f logo. Camera An icon of a digital camera. Home An icon of a house. Instagram An icon of the Instagram logo. LinkedIn An icon of the LinkedIn logo. Magnifying Glass An icon of a magnifying glass. Search Icon A magnifying glass icon that is used to represent the function of searching. Menu An icon of 3 horizontal lines. Hamburger Menu Icon An icon used to represent a collapsed menu. Next An icon of an arrow pointing to the right. Notice An explanation mark centred inside a circle. Previous An icon of an arrow pointing to the left. Rating An icon of a star. Tag An icon of a tag. Twitter An icon of the Twitter logo. Video Camera An icon of a video camera shape. Speech Bubble Icon A icon displaying a speech bubble WhatsApp An icon of the WhatsApp logo. Information An icon of an information logo. Plus A mathematical 'plus' symbol. Duration An icon indicating Time. Success Tick An icon of a green tick. Success Tick Timeout An icon of a greyed out success tick. Loading Spinner An icon of a loading spinner. Facebook Messenger An icon of the facebook messenger app logo. Facebook An icon of a facebook f logo. Facebook Messenger An icon of the Twitter app logo. LinkedIn An icon of the LinkedIn logo. WhatsApp Messenger An icon of the Whatsapp messenger app logo. Email An icon of an mail envelope. Copy link A decentered black square over a white square.

TINA McGUFF: Anorexia should not be a death sentence in 2021, let that be Nikki Grahame’s legacy

File photo dated 10/09/10 of Nikki Grahame leaving as a runner-up in Ultimate Big Brother, at Elstree Studios in Borehamwood, Hertfordshire. The reality TV star who rose to fame as a contestant on Big Brother, has died aged 38. Issue date: Saturday April 10, 2021. PA Photo. See PA story DEATH Grahame. Photo credit should read: Yui Mok/PA Wire
File photo dated 10/09/10 of Nikki Grahame leaving as a runner-up in Ultimate Big Brother, at Elstree Studios in Borehamwood, Hertfordshire. The reality TV star who rose to fame as a contestant on Big Brother, has died aged 38. Issue date: Saturday April 10, 2021. PA Photo. See PA story DEATH Grahame. Photo credit should read: Yui Mok/PA Wire

Dundee author Tina McGuff is an anorexia survivor, whose memoir Seconds to Snap, details the years she spent battling the eating disorder and its lasting impact.

Here she writes about her reaction to the death of reality TV star Nikki Grahame, aged 38, after a lifetime battling anorexia, and her hope that the publicity around the tragedy will inspire others to seek, or offer help.


The death of Big Brother star Nikki Grahame is a sad reminder that eating disorders have the highest mortality rates among psychiatric disorders.

In anorexia, this excess mortality is explained in part by the physical complications and in part by an increased rate of suicide. It’s a very complex mental illness.

Tina McGuff.

Anorexia, or any other eating disorder should never be a death sentence, especially in 2021 when we know with evidence-based treatment and early intervention, recovery is always possible, even after many years of illness.

Trauma is universal, as is food, and we use our nervous system to regulate those feelings we feel uncomfortable with.

Anorexia was a shield

For me and many like me anorexia was a shield which I used to stay emotionally safe, without realising it was an addiction and would lead to many years of inpatient therapy.

Now as someone who has now made a full recovery, and from years of working in this this area, I know it’s not always going to be a straightforward journey for everyone.

Tina as a young woman dealing with anorexia in the 1980s.

Nikki Grahame’s death from anorexia has come as a devastating blow to her family, friends and those who loved her, including our community of campaigners and her fans.

Nikki has been very open over the years talking about her battle with anorexia and published her own story Fragile – The true story of my lifelong battle with anorexia then an updated version Dying to be Thin.

She used her platform to raise the public’s awareness of eating disorders,  and was never scared to talk about the horrendous reality of living with anorexia; how it stole her childhood, ravaged her body and left her infertile.

Reality was not so glamorous

She used her words to really describe the painful, un-glamourous reality she lived in.

Nikki had been accessing treatment since the age of eight. However, ultimately the NHS couldn’t save her.

And in the months leading up to her death, Nikki’s friends and family had to set up a Go Fund Me page to pay for private specialist care.

Eating disorder treatment services are woefully underfunded, and during lockdown one charity reported a 280% increase in calls in 2020 alone, saying there was concern for sufferers accessing services through their GP.

Often people are turned away because their BMI isn’t low enough, because under-investment means services can only take medically extreme cases.

By the time they have a sufficiently low BMI, they could very well be in need of inpatient treatment, requiring long term care and lessening theirs chance of a full recovery.

Beds and funding fall short

I asked Dr Stephen Anderson, an eating disorder psychiatrist, about available bed space for inpatient treatment in Scotland.

He says there are 26 adult beds available in the NHS and some in general psychiatry. So even if someone needs a bed there is a huge problem accessing one.

Eating disorders affect up to 5% of the population at any point in time, and place an enormous physical, psychological, and financial burden on individuals who are affected and their families.

Just 96p per sufferer is spent on research into eating disorders. For comparison around £9 per sufferer is spent on research into depression

The most recent National Institute for Care Excellence (NICE) guidelines on the recognition and treatment of eating disorders found the evidence-base for both psychological and pharmacological therapies used to treat eating disorders relies on a few small studies, and that many areas remain under-researched.

Here is a figure that may shock you. Just 96p per sufferer is spent on research into eating disorders. For comparison around £9 per sufferer is spent on research into depression.

So what can be done to prevent more people suffering what happened to Nikki Grahame?

Nikki Grahame spoke openly about her battles with anorexia and depression. Photo by Ken McKay/ITV/Shutterstock.

Going forward we need much more education right from school age.

When medical students go through university they must be given more than the standard couple of hours on the topic.

Scotland’s Mental Health First Aid strategy needs a section added so all workplaces have this information to share with the workforce.

No one should feel ashamed about struggling with their mental health, especially now as we come out of lockdown

And there are also people like myself who are prepared to deliver workshops across the UK if it means awareness is raised.

Many schools have started teaching mental health qualifications and this can only help to end the stigma that has prevented people from asking for help in the past.

No one should feel ashamed about struggling with their mental health, especially now as we come out of lockdown.

Social media: a curse and a blessing

So many parents ask me about the impact of social media, it’s a dichotomy and a part of the world we now live in.

There are too many appalling accounts promoting unhealthy fad diets. They need to be held accountable, and the platforms need to step up and own that accountability as well as the creators.

However, there are also some amazing, positive accounts on there too, sharing great messages of positivity and hope.

Tina McGuff wrote her book in the hope it would help fellow sufferers.

If anyone is concerned about themselves or a loved one, please know you are not alone and there is help available.

Remember early intervention is key, so please ask the question, be there for someone, spot the early warning signs.

A number of sites also provide free information and support, including www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk and the Scottish Eating Disorders Interest Group