Cammy Graham was out for a languid stroll on the beach in North Berwick when his best mate, Harry, made a seemingly throwaway observation.
βHe saw a wee dark spot on my calf,β says the 18-year-old. βI thought it was just a freckle but, fortunately, heβs more intelligent than me! He said βno, thatβs a really dark mole, you should go to your GP and get it checkedβ. That was in August 2020.β
A trip to his doctor, a scan and a biopsy followed before the he received the diagnosis on March 2: Graham had stage two melanoma, a form of skin cancer which often presents with the appearance of a new mole or a change in an existing one.
βI donβt like saying it to Harry, but he might have saved my life,β added Graham.
In a cruel twist, the day Graham received that shuddering news was the same afternoon when it was announced that the 2020/21 football season would be allowed to resume.
The talented midfielder had scored three goals in eight outings for Stenhousemuir prior to the Covid-enforced shutdown and his only concern should have been continuing that momentum.
Instead, his thoughts turned to illness and mortality; worries a young man should not have to countenance.
βI just thought: βOh my God, where do I go from here?β,β said Graham candidly. βThe five days after being told the news were the worst five days of my life
βI went home and locked myself in my room. I didnβt even want to speak to my family. All I kept thinking was: βHow does an 18-year-old get diagnosed with cancer?β
βAll the while I was just terrified that it was spreading.
“Itβs weird when you are seeing your pals for the first time after the news. Even they donβt know how to act around you; donβt know what to say. What can you say?
“Itβs the scariest news I can imagine getting but I canβt say how grateful I am to the NHSΒ for all the support I got.β
Mercifully, it was not spreading. Graham received the all-clear last month following another biopsy and has already resumed full training with Stenny after signing a contract extension.
That would be a sufficiently inspirational outcome, even before one takes into account the positivity and determination with which Graham approached his recovery.
Absolutely over the moon to get the all clear from the biopsy. Toughest couple months! Thank you for everyoneβs support to the fundraiser and messages ππβ€οΈ pic.twitter.com/2KCb938ikP
— Cammy Graham (@cammygrahamm) May 6, 2021
Prior to the successful operation to remove the cancerous cells from his leg, Graham climbed Ben Lomond to raise money for Melanoma UK, earning close to Β£8,000 for theΒ cancer charity.
Displaying remarkable maturity for one so young, he intends to continue his relationship with the organisation with a view to raising awareness among those in his age group.
βAfter the diagnosis, I decided βno way, I wasnβt going to let it beat me,β said Graham. βFundraising helped me to stay positive and so did speaking to surgeons, people who had this in the past and Melanoma UK.
βWe were at Β£7,785 when I closed down the page to hand over to the charity. I was only expecting Β£1000 at the start but it just went crazy.”
He added: βIβm quite proud of myself that I never got too down about it. I just cracked on with a positive attitude. Of course, you have bad days but thatβs when everyone surrounding me came into their own.β
Of that support network, mum Angela, dad Darren, his brother and sister, Kyle and Amy, and his gran β who βwonβt cope with a mention in the paperβ β were his rocks.
The backing of the football family, so often a meaningless platitude, also became apparent for the ex-Hearts and Dunfermline youngster, with messages of support from the likes of Aaron Hickey, Josh Doig and Sean Clare.
βI was at Hearts for eight years so I grew up with boys like Aaron Hickey, Connor Smith, Cammy Logan, Josh Doig, Leroy [Makovara], Mackenzie Lawler,β he continued. βThey were there for me when I needed them.
βI even got messages from Jake Mulraney and Sean Clare β guys that I didnβt even think would know about it or really know who I was.
βIt was the same with the boys at Dunfermline like Matty Todd and Lewis McCann, and the amazing support Iβve had from Andy Munro, Mark McGuigan, Callum Tapping at Stenhousemuir.
βWhen you get messages from across the game it does lift your spirits and I canβt thank them enough.β
‘With one phone-call, it was all over’
In terms of βlifting the spiritsβ nothing compared β or may ever compare β to the moment he received the news that the cancer had not spread.
“I honestly canβt put that feeling into words,β added Graham βIt was the toughest, scariest two months of my life β and in that moment, with that one phone-call, it was all over.
βI was so happy and not just for myself. My family were so relieved and thankful and, after all the support they gave me, it was amazing to see their joy.β
βοΈ Re-signing News
Weβre pleased to announce that @cammygrahamm has signed a new contract with the club.
Cammy joined us last year and is looking forward to getting on the pitch. He told us βI'm excited for what can be a successful season"#WarriorsAsOne#YourWarriorsYourClub pic.twitter.com/n7QB84nHq7
— Stenhousemuir FC (@StenhousemuirFC) May 21, 2021
And how sweet it is for Graham to once again be focusing on football and continuing what was, until his illness, a mighty promising spell with the Warriors.
βThe club have been brilliant with me,β added Graham. βFrom the moment I told them about my diagnosis, they told me there was a contract waiting for me after my procedure β and Iβm just buzzing to be here for next season.
βNow I want to make a real impact. I want to get a full season, playing from start to finish and help the club have a successful season. I feel good and, with a few friendlies under my belt, Iβm confident Iβll be flying again.β